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The teenage years are not only a difficult time for many young
people, but also extremely nerve racking and scary for parents.
As your teen begins riding in cars with friends and then driving
themselves, there are many adult issues that need to be discussed
such as peer pressure, alcohol and other drugs.
One of the best things you can do as a parent is to set the tone
for open communication and trust before problems start.
Sit down with your teen and explain your feelings on alcohol and
drugs. Emphasize the fact that it is illegal to drink until the
age of 21. Let them know the dangers of drinking or getting in
the car with someone under the influence of alcohol or drugs.
Don't lecture to your teen. Express your feelings, but give them
a chance to talk as well.
Sign a Students Against Driving Drunk (SADD) "Contract For Life"
with your teen. The contract states that your teenager will not
drink nor ride with anyone under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
The teen promises to call home for a ride if they find themselves
in a difficult situation. The parent, in turn, promises to pick
up or arrange for safe transportation when called without argument
or a lecture at the time. The parent and teen agree that they
will discuss the incident the next day or at another appropriate
time.
Address excessive speed and reckless driving. Teens are often
involved in crashes involving high speeds and poor judgment approaching
curves and changing lanes. Talk with your teen about speaking
up when a friend is driving too fast. Consider sending your teen
to a driving program - above and beyond the standard driver's
education required by the Department of Motor Vehicles - that
gives them ample time behind the wheel and specifically targets
the skills that new drivers often lack.
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Remind your teen that unsafe driving behavior can result in the
suspension of his or her driver's license. Many teens consider
their license a ticket to freedom - remind them that driving is
a privilege and it can be taken away.
Reinforce the importance of wearing a safety belt.
For more information on teen alcohol and other drug use issues
and a copy of the SADD "Contract For Life," contact SADD national
at 608/481-3568.
You may also want to become involved with organizations that
specifically address teen safety issues such as Mothers Against
Drunk Driving (MADD) or the National Grad Nite Network. MADD national,
800-GET-MADD, can refer you to the chapter nearest you.
The National Grad Nite Network at 800-77GRADS (800/774-7237) can
help parents organize campus-based graduation parties and inform
you of grad night activities in your area. |